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 3-item wardrobe example

There are so many ways to relate with clothes differently to what is the norm in our society. By "the norm" I mean what I generally observe around me, but of course I also recognise that many fellow humans practise alternative ways of being in the world. The norm is such that fellow humans buy clothes often and often discard them. Near my apartment block in a recycling facility there is a textile bin which gets filled so quickly, often with clothes that look wearable and could still serve someone else. Fast fashion and ultra fast fashion companies thrive. Many humans feel the pressure to wear different outfits every day. I'm not following any influencers and use social media mindfully, but I believe that much pressure to consume and reinvent oneself comes from that realm of social being. There seems to be an obsession with everything new. 

Yet, some fellow humans make their own clothes. Some commit to buying only or mostly second-hand clothes. Some borrow and swap clothes with others. Some practise naturism whenever possible. Some commit to buying only from small, local businesses. All of these are beautiful ways to relate with clothes differently. 

I do not think that there is one perfect way of relating with clothes more sustainably. Personally, I realised that living with a lot less than what is the norm in our society is my preferred way. I've never been good at making my own clothes and I never had enough time for that due to my academic work. I don't shop second-hand because I don't like shopping. I borrow clothes very rarely. I practise naturism in summer in the Nordics whenever possible and wherever I am unlikely to meet too many fellow humans. Buying clothes from small, local businesses is very expensive.

In this entry I wanted to capture an example of what I wear every single day. In the picture above is one of my 2 linen shirts, one of my 3 pairs of sweatpants (1 of which I don't wear), and one of several basic tops. Everything I live with is either off-white, some shade of beige or grey. I wear these colours because they are calming to me and probably also to my fellow humans. I find bright colours and patterns overstimulating, and perhaps some fellow humans do too. I don't want to contribute to overstimulation in the world where our senses are overloaded every day. My basic tops and sweatpants look slightly different because I welcomed them into my life at different times. Some of those basic tops have long sleeves, some have short sleeves and some are sleeveless. 

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 3-item wardrobe

I jokingly refer to my tiny collection of clothes as a 3-item wardrobe. This is because every day I wear a uniform that consists of three items: sweatpants, a basic top and a linen shirt. At times, I don't wear the shirt or the basic top. And in summers I wear shorts instead of sweatpants. Those shorts are exactly the same as the sweatpants, just cropped. They come from the same company which I will not name. I will just say that it's not a fast fashion brand and there are some aspects of their business model that I like (and some that I don't). I do not own a bra because I want to normalise freedom of choice in this domain. 

I live with 2 loose linen shirts, 3 pairs of sweatpants, 1 pair of shorts, and several basic tops. 1 of those pairs of sweatpants I wear very rarely. I've had them for a while but I'm not sure if I will keep them. In the picture above one can see my whole collection of clothes. To the left, there are some towels that belong to our household, and to the right my loved one's clothes. My one and only jacket and the only scarf that I live with are not in the picture. These days I try to avoid wearing those things as much as possible because it's getting warmer. Since I moved to northern Sweden, everything above 0 degrees is "warm" to me. 

I try to relate with my clothes differently to what is the norm in our society. I do not want to reinvent myself as trends, days, and seasons change, and as I move through my day and my life. I do not want to take part in normalising different outfits for different occasions. Many of my fellow humans wear different things when they relax, go shopping, meet with friends, attend meetings and conferences. I wear the same outfit for all these occasions. It allows me to live only with the clothes I like and feel comfortable in. It allows me to take part in counter-culture that opposes consumerism. To be kind to myself and the Earth.